Brian is quite fond of getting treats after meals. Usually if we give him a treat it is after supper, though we will also occasonally give him something small after lunch like a bit of candy. For a while he even asked for a treat every time he finished his breakfast, but we definitely drew the line there.
Sometimes, for whatever reason, we will give him a “big” treat after lunch instead of after supper. Inevitably he will ask for another treat after supper. Of course we tell him something like “you already had your big treat after lunch.” His standard response to this is something like this:
- Brian: Can I have some ice cream and cookies for my treat.
- Me: You already had a big treat after lunch.
- Brian: No, that was my snack, not my treat!
So yesterday night Brian was being pretty wild and we were having a hard time getting him to settle down. He was starting to get to the “hitting and throwing things” stage, so I asked him to go have a time out. Of course he never takes that idea well, so things were starting to escalate a bit.
- Me: Brian, go get on your bed for a time out.
- Brian: No, I need to go have my treat.
- Me: Go now or you will have a time out for your treat.
So, obviously that wasn’t the best calm parent response in the world. But that’s not the point of this story. The high point happened later, after I finally got Brian in on his bed for a time out. After he had been in there for several minutes and had settled down somewhat, he called to me and said something that had me laughing uncontrollably:
- Brian: I still need my treat, because my time out was just my snack and not my treat!